Here is the quote that I was telling you about.  I found it on the Internet a few months ago and I can’t remember where I found it.  This is why setting goals for you and your children is a good thing.

Benjamin Mays, mentor to Dr. Martin Luther King, said “The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach. It isn’t a calamity to die with dreams unfulfilled, but it is a calamity not to dream. It isn’t a disgrace not to reach the stars, but it is a disgrace to have no stars to reach for.”